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11/05/16 12:45 PM #2481    

 

Judy Holtzer (Knopf)

It was a horrid shock to read of Rick Steiner's most untimely passing. My thanks to Ann for the link to the obituary. Rick's super-glue ties to the Class of 1964 are a testament to his sense of loyalty and friendship. His was a very special soul, and I wish I could offer words of comfort not only to his family, but to the many "of us" who were so close to Rick for so many successive decades. May his memory be a blessing. 


11/05/16 02:39 PM #2482    

Lydia Morris (Brown-Johnson)

To Rick, our BFF, R.I.P.


11/05/16 04:41 PM #2483    

Bill Katz

There are no words to express our sorrow. Ace and my grandson have been friends for years. About 10 of Ace and Adam,s fraternity brothers are coming in from IU to support Ace


11/06/16 08:20 AM #2484    

 

Ann Shepard (Rueve)

Here is an active link of the wonderful article in the NYTimes posted by Nelson. I will post it on Facebook.  Rick's accomplishments are many and the simplest and most profound was to be the heart and soul of our class. We all know that Rick is now, as Anthony Malone says, flying on eagle's wings.

SURSUM AD SUMMUM, Rick!

I hope to see many of you today. 

http://mobile.nytimes.com/2016/11/05/theater/richard-steiner-producer-of-broadway-hits-dies-at-69.html?hpw&rref=obituaries&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&module=well-region&region=bottom-well&WT.nav=bottom-well&_r=1&referer=


11/06/16 10:37 AM #2485    

 

Ira Goldberg

The last contact I had with Rick showed his positive and generous personality. It was a reply to my telling how I was off see Jersey Boys with Wendy. Later, he asked how we liked it in his typically thoughtful way  

Hi Ira

So glad you have a squeeze! I remember Columbia Maryland well as I was there in the mid-70s when it was being built. I ran a T-shirt booth at carnivals and it was a very wonderful  place. 

Will be very interested in how do you like Jersey boys as this is a brand-new cast that will have just started the first leg of the tour after a three month layoff. Look forward to hearing your comments.

Be sure to say hi to the merchandise concessionaire woho's name is Auggie. Please tell him I want you to I have A couple of T-shirts and CDs of your choosing. I mean it!

Best
Ric

I can't be there today to say farewell to our "class godfather," as David posted.  Yet, I'll be there in my thoughts, sharing our collective grief.  Love to all  

 

 

 





 


11/06/16 04:07 PM #2486    

 

Stephen (Steve) Dixon

Mr. Rick Steiner... Guy put down a big footprint and did it with class, good humor, and generosity of spirit.

THAT is an exceedingly rare achievement.


11/07/16 09:48 AM #2487    

 

Nelson Abanto

It was an absolutely beautiful day to bid farewell to Rick. Cindy and I landed at 12:30 and had to hustle to get to the funeral home by 2. The funeral home was packed with the many people whom Rick had touched in his 70 years on this planet. Indeed, it was standing room only and I was one of those standing until Gene Katona and his daughter, Mandy made everyone in their row squeeze over so I could sit down.

Thanks Gene.

There were three beautiful, touching eulogies that made us all laugh and cry. I'll let someone else comment on two of them but I have to say that John Osher touched me the most. His comment that I felt most poignant was that he, John, felt like he knew maybe 30 people really well in our class. Ricky had 300 best friends. I am happy that I was one of them.

The most stressful part of the day was driving behind David Schneider in the funeral procession but I am now co-holder of the world record from Weil funeral home to the Walnut Hills Jewish cemetery.

After the burial we retired to 4044 Rose Hill and laughed and cried a little bit more. I took shameless advantage of the occasion to hug and kiss all the girls one more time but I figured if Trump is elected no one would notice.

The day was, indeed, a celebration of Rick's life. Although we all know this magnificent story, it was soothing and comforting to hear so many articulate people talk about it.

Alas, as I write this post on the plane home, I feel an overwhelming emptiness.

11/07/16 10:09 AM #2488    

 

David Buchholz

Nelson, thank you for posting this.  For those of us who were unable to attend in person we were there in spirit.  Your rememberances of the occasion, (including the kssing of the girls), made me smile, knowing that in the sharing of grief there is also a sharing of love, gratitude, and appreciation, things that resonate deeply as we enter this new decade.  I had found a quote that I sent to Gail and Ann that touched me deeply:  "Grief is really just love.  It's all the love you want to give but cannot.  All of that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest.  Grief is just love with no place to go."


11/08/16 06:44 AM #2489    

 

Chuck Cole

Nelson and Dave,  the two of your in your beautiful postings are sending out at least some of the love that is having trouble finding a way to expand.  I wish I could have joined you in Cincinnati.  


11/08/16 10:46 AM #2490    

 

Ira Goldberg

 

 

Rick heroically wore the mantel of caring for us, but could carry it no further. May we all hold a piece of it in our hearts from this day forward. The class of '64 bonded and thrived under his love of it. We're the "rememberers" now and shall continue his generous ways as we take on that responsibility in earnest.


11/08/16 01:50 PM #2491    

 

Nelson Abanto

That is a profound quote, David, and written in a style that recalls (to me) Norman Maclean.  I recently reread "A river runs through it" (for about the 100th time) and was struck by an equally profound quote written in a similar style:  

Each one of us here today will at one time in our lives look upon a loved one who is in need and ask the same question: We are willing to help, Lord, but what, if anything, is needed? For it is true we can seldom help those closest to us. Either we don't know what part of ourselves to give or, more often than not, the part we have to give is not wanted. And so it is those we live with and should know who elude us. But we can still love them - we can love completely without complete understanding.”

That quote has helped me in dealing with more than one difficult family situation.


11/08/16 02:37 PM #2492    

Jim Hilb

Those of us who were able to say farewell to Rick represented our entire class. For those not present, you were represented by each of us who were present. As I hugged Ann, Sandy and Laura simultaneously, we said Rick was the glue holding us together, not any glue, but "Super Glue". Those bonds will never break.

The outpouring of love, affection and caring for Rick and his family was evident from the cross-section of those present: Rick's Class(our class), Rick's Broadway, Rick's Cincinnati Reds, and Rick's friends. A little part of each of us will always be with Rick.


11/08/16 02:38 PM #2493    

 

Nancy Messer

Rick's photographers were at the funeral.  I wonder if we'll ever get access to the results of their efforts.

 


11/09/16 10:27 PM #2494    

 

Ann Shepard (Rueve)

Nelson didn't describe how harrowing a drive it was from the funeral home to the cemetery. As the long procession of cars was en route and entered the highway, I was fortunate to have a place in line about ten cars back to be able to see the hearse with flashing lights and know which lane to be in and the correct exit.  The line of cars was breached by rude drivers a couple of times and I hoped the car behind me would be able to catch up (which it did). I couldn't figure out why we were taking such a non-direct and circuitous route navigating different highways. I knew where we were headed immediately when we exited "The Norwood Lateral" at Paddock Rd. It was Rick's wish to drive by Rose Hill one last time.

Rick had given me the Broadway cast cd of Jersey Boys when I happened to see him when the musical was first on tour in Cincinnati. I was listening to that same cd when I drove to the funeral and kept listening while driving to the cemetery. 

https://youtu.be/VHgxx3EOknU

 


11/10/16 07:18 AM #2495    

 

Nelson Abanto

Happy Birthday all you Jarheads!

Today is the 241st birthday of the United States Marine Corps!  Semper Fidelis.


11/10/16 12:55 PM #2496    

 

Larry Klein

And the same to you, Nelson.  I was fortunate to sing at the CMC Birthday Ball at 8th and I in 1968 as part of The Basic School Chorus.  It was one of my last "duties" stateside ere heading off to Nam.  So glad all of our class Marines came home safely from that war.  Semper Fi!


11/11/16 10:24 AM #2497    

 

Evan Burkholder

Semper Fi Nelson and Larry - that trip to 8th and I with the Basic School class always stands out. My trip was in 1974. Those were back in the days when some version of "Chesty" walked out on a leash and squatted attention!


11/11/16 12:24 PM #2498    

 

Michael Hunting

There is nothing better than the Marine's dress blues.  As some of you know my son is a Marine aviator. Thanks to all Vets for their service.


11/11/16 03:48 PM #2499    

Tina Preuninger (Hisrich)

Thank you

to all who served,

family members, friends, colleagues.  

We honor your sacrifices. 

 

 

 

 


11/13/16 05:13 PM #2500    

 

Doug Gordon

I was saddened to hear of Rick's death, and had no real idea of the breadth of his life until I read the excellent NY Times obituary. Rick was in my 7th grade classroom in that year of upheaval as we adapted to suddenly being at the bottom of the hierarchy in what seemed (at least to me) to be such a huge institution inhabited by large, rowdy upper classmen. To be honest, I don't really remember him from any of my classes at WHHS, but certainly reconnected with him as the architect of the early class reunions that I attended.

I haven't been back to this site in quite a while, so was also shocked to see the growing list in the "In Memory" section. I was aware of Mike White's recent passing from my Facebook feed, but there are now so many others, including a couple of old friends who I was hoping to try to contact "someday." Let's make sure we keep making the most of our lives while we still can!


11/13/16 05:18 PM #2501    

 

Doug Gordon

On a lighter note, anyone else been smiling to themselves at the thought of our old friend Dale Gieringer jumping up and clicking his heels after California finally legalized recreational weed?


11/14/16 12:17 PM #2502    

 

Dale Gieringer

    Doug, now that you mention it, we had the pleasure of partying seriously election night to celebrate the victory of legal marijuana in California.   Our party was an island of exhilaration in an otherwise troubled sea of dismay around here.   Outside, police helicopters hovered above anti-Trump demonstrators in front of Oakland City Hall  (a preview of many to come).  Inside, we were regaled by the dionysian antics of the Extra Action Marching Band (pictured above).  So much more fun than watching returns on TV!   We counted down to midnight, the hour when marijuana officially became legal, then we adjourned outside to smoke a joint on the sidewalk, in good humored civil disobedience of the new law that bans consumption in public places - a restriction that didn't exist previously.  I went home and listened to Dylan:   the Times They Are A-Changin'.  My only question is, now that marijuana's legal here in California, why does it seem we've got so much more trouble to deal with?   - Dale

 

 

 


11/14/16 08:26 PM #2503    

 

Jerry Ochs

On an absolutely non-political note, does anybody know the title of the book that, at 1,463 pages, is the longest Australian work of fiction?

How about the name of a 1940 song written by Ruth Lowe? The most successful and best-known version of the song was recorded by Tommy Dorsey and His Orchestra, with vocals provided by Frank Sinatra and The Pied Pipers.


11/14/16 11:48 PM #2504    

 

Philip Spiess

Dale:  I suppose it means that, on the whole, the country is slowly but really going to pot.

Jerry:  I don't suppose, by any chance, that it is the Imperial, Empirical, and Colonial Encyclopedia of Indigenous Flora and Fauna of the Great Barrier Reef, Described Species by Species by Certain Learned Scientific Authorities, British, American, and Australian (with Special Emendations by the late Prof. Diogenes Teufelsdrockh of the University of Weissnichtwo, the brothers Wilhelm and Alexander von Humboldt of Berlin, Profs. Louis Agassiz and Asa Gray of Harvard University in the United States, and Mr. Dunstan "Crocodile" Dundee, late of Brisbane, Australia), with Copious Notes on the Edibility of Said Species (If Taken Wisely) and with Artfully Designed Recipes for the Frugal Housewife and Hausfrau Appertaining Thereto (Fully Illustrated and Annotated by Various Artists and Scholars of Note in These Our Modern Times, such as are Presently Making Good Money by Adding Their Prestige to Superfluous Subscription Volumes such as This, and Including Aubrey Beardsley, Richard Dadd, and Thomas Henry Huxley) -- 19th-Century Oxford University Edition (1885), as Envisioned by Jules Verne?

Oh, and Jerry:  I assume the song you're referring to is "I'll Never Smile Again."  Ruth Lowe, pianist with the Ina Ray Hutton all-girl orchestra, was, as you may know, inspired to write this ballad on the death of her husband, Harold Cohen, only a few months after their marriage.  Why do you ask (or is this a less-than-veiled reference to the recent Presidential election)?


11/15/16 05:49 AM #2505    

 

Jerry Ochs

Phil,

I asked about a novel (fiction).  You got the song right.


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