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06/28/23 06:00 AM #6464    

 

Laura Reid (Pease)

 

I echo Ann's words:  Larry, many thanks for posting all those pictures from our photographer and also those from our own David Buchholz!  Thanks to you both!

 


06/28/23 12:41 PM #6465    

 

David Buchholz

I appreciate the kudos for my images from the reunion, and a double thanks to Larry for his hospitality.  I also appreciated comments about images that I take for myself. which gave me the encouragement to share some of these on the website.

After returning to CA Jadyne and I spent last weekend at Yosemite, a summer getaway that we approached with mixed feelings.  The crowds are ginormous, but after a winter that brought more than 800" of snow to parts of the Sierra, seeing the fabled waterfalls took precedence.  Here are a few images from that weekend.

Upper Yosemite Falls.  A hike with a 1000' elevation change brought us to this view.  Yosemite Falls is the  highest waterfall in North America.

A Close up of the top of the falls.

Halfway down.  The white spray at the top is from Upper Yosemite Falls. 

Vernal Falls.  The 1.6 mile trail takes you to this footbridge and a few thousand other visitors.

Heading to the park exits we passed by El Capitan.  The average time it takes to climb this monolth is 4-6 days. Two years ago a climber free-climbed it in just under four hours.

    
      We were not alone...


06/29/23 09:57 AM #6466    

 

Ann Shepard (Rueve)

Breathtaking pictures David!


06/29/23 10:11 AM #6467    

 

Stephen (Steve) Dixon

Let me add my sincere thanks to both the photographers and the uploaded. These photos are just great.

And I feel a little bit closer to to the festivities after viewing them (for about the fourth time).

 


06/29/23 11:33 AM #6468    

 

John Granby

I am so very sorry to hear of th reent paaing of Mike.I still remember helping him walk from class to class and i believe my mother recored some of the text books he used.   I wasn't able to make this years reunion but I hope to be able to visit all of you in the coming years.  


06/30/23 01:59 PM #6469    

 

Sandy Steele (Bauman)

 

Larry, Thanks for your hard work on uploading the picture from the reunion weekend. Appreciate all the help you provided before the reunion, and now with all the pictures.

 


07/02/23 05:17 PM #6470    

 

Gail Weintraub (Stern)

Jon Marks has informed us of the passing of Al Lederer in 2020. The death of a classmate is never easy to process. May Al's memory always be a blessing.

Albert Lederer Obituary:

LEDERER Albert Lewis, was born on March 5, 1946. Degreed from the University of Cincinnati in psychology, he spent over 10 years in industry in the management information systems field. He earned an MS in computer and information systems and PhD in industrial and systems engineering from Ohio State University. He joined the University of Kentucky faculty in 1994 as professor of management information systems. He passed away on October 4, 2020. Predeceased by his parents, Lewis M. and Marjorie Faller Lederer, and his sister, Mary Ann Lederer, he is survived by his wife Ann Lederer, son Philip A. Lederer (Kristen Lee), grandson Joseph P. Lederer, and many friends who will sorely miss him. In lieu of flowers, please donate to Ohio State University. Published by Lexington Herald-Leader on Oct. 13, 2020. 


07/09/23 10:49 AM #6471    

 

Ira Goldberg

Well, Happy Birthday Dave! Is there a picture for that? We are all grateful for our lives. May they be healthy and long. 


07/09/23 09:08 PM #6472    

 

Philip Spiess

HEAT

Right now it is hot where I am; I suppose it is where you are, too.  It has been this way, it seems, for the past several weeks – not much rain, but plenty of humidity, and the sweat “rolls down like mighty waters.”  The state of the flowers reminds me of what Jack Frost said to the rose:  “Wilt thou?” – and it wilted.  There is smoke from Canada pervading the air and invading the senses, but no one cooks out.  The neighborhood pools, I suppose, are chock-a-block with kids, now that school is out for the year.  I don’t know; I no longer go to the pool – the kids would not want to see me in a bathing suit.  Why, you ask, am I even outside at all?

It was different in my childhood (and yours, too).  That was, in part, because it was in the days before most people had air-conditioning.  You drove down the highway on a vacation and passed motels advertising “Air-Conditioned”; you probably stayed in one for that very reason.  You went to the movies in the afternoon because a prominent sign on the theater said “It’s cool inside!” – and it was.  This sign was probably festooned with lit-up icicles to make the point, and it may have had the penguin figure of “Chilly Willy” on it, too.  Our grandparents didn’t have air-conditioning, but most of them probably had an old-fashioned house with high ceilings, with windows wide open to the air, or else a dark house surrounded by old, overhanging trees, with blinds and windows closed and heavy drapes on them – an even older counter-system for keeping the house cool in summer.

We kids, if not outdoors at all hours, played in the basement, where it was cool (okay, sometimes it smelled a little mildewed).  We ate ice cream (often from United Dairy Farmers, if not from a passing vendor truck) in a variety of forms to stay cool – ice cream cones (if they were in real waffle cones, they dripped out the bottom), Eskimo Pies (they often lost a bit of chocolate before you could catch it), Popsicles (the bottom chunk dropped off the stick while you were slurping at the top part), ice cream sandwiches (which got squishy as you ate them in the heat), creamsicles (that unlikely combination of orange juice and milk), even Dixie Cups (where you ate the ice cream with little wooden paddles, also used by younger kids for sucking down library paste) – no wonder we switched to Graeter’s as we got older!

On really hot evenings my father would take us for a drive around the shaded neighborhoods in the car.  All the car windows were open to the night, including the “Cozy-Wings,” those triangle-shaped panes of windows-on-hinges between the ends of the windshield and the car’s front windows; you could turn them inward so the cool air (and bugs) came rushing in as you drove.  Where are they now?  “Gone with the hogshead, cask, and demijohn” – replaced by internal car air-conditioning.  (I never got an air-conditioned car until I moved to Washington, D. C., where the place is always full of hot air.)

Or maybe you went on a picnic with family or friends, perhaps to a county park such as Winton Woods.  Or your family had a cookout in the backyard, kids playing while adults sipped at cocktails and kept an eye on the grill, a “barbacoa” cooking habit borrowed from the Caribbean natives Columbus found when he landed (he thought) in “India.”  Another cooling weekday evening activity was a Groesbeck Fund-sponsored free band concert in one of the city parks (or Sunday afternoons in Eden Park).  I acquired my love of music (German and/or Broadway, as it may have been) on Thursday nights at concerts in Burnet Woods, with Herbert Tiemeier, Withrow’s “Smitty,” or Walter Esberger conducting the bands they had put together; Marian Spelman was often the soloist.  I could stand behind the band pavilion and watch all the old men drummers – snare, kettle, and bass (with cymbals) – performing for hours, the conductors and brass players invariably sweating profusely in the summer night.

But now we have heat.  It does not have either the smell nor the feel of the heat of my childhood, a heat you often gloried in when you ran outside to play of a summer’s morning.  It was warming and gentle, sometimes so gentle that you forgot it was there and received a well-deserved sunburn in return!  (The smell and greasy feel of suntan lotion I will remember always, also the look and smell of my sister’s rubber bathing cap after it had melted a bit and stuck to itself, having been stored for the winter in what became, in summer, a hot, unventilated attic.)  You’d revel in the summer warmth while bike riding or roller skating.

Now we have heat, and we are no longer used to it, because of the ubiquitous air-conditioning.  It is so much colder than the houses of yore, which were warmed by the sun but cooled (sometimes) by the breezes coming through the windows.  Or by fans, electric fans. They would turn and oscillate in homes, barber shops, the post office, the public library.  They’d blow stacks of papers across the floor or scatter the petals of flowers that came within their range.  They’d disarrange the hairdos of elderly women who may have already had a palm-leaf fan in hand to move the air around them.  Now the cold air from air-conditioning, not the directed air from fans, surrounds us (I sometimes have to put on a jacket); we cannot even open the always-sealed windows in most offices and school buildings.

All this thinking about summers past has made me hot.  I think I’ll sit in the cool (or by the pool) and read Henry Miller’s 1945 book, The Air-Conditioned Nightmare.   


07/10/23 11:26 AM #6473    

 

Richard Murdock

Phil:

You have my sympathies for enduring humidity.  Your message brought back vivid memories of me trying to get to sleep at night during the summer in Cincinnati and not being very successful with that.  The house that I lived in was located in the Hyde Park/Mt. Lookout area.  It was built sometime around 1916 or so.  Red brick, 2 stories and a basement (something you don't see here in California).  The 3 bedrooms were located on the second floor and of course the house had no air conditioning.  Other than opening a window or two.  What I called "climate-controlled air conditioning".  

I vividly remember lying on top of my bed praying for a thunderstorm  so I could get to sleep.  The thunderstorm and the lightning that typically accompanied the storm would "break" the humidity and thus create a window of time for me to get to sleep.   I am very thankful these days because where I live in the Bay Area there is no humidity.   Plus my house is equpped with modern air conditioning which does a pretty good job when it is hot outside. 

All I can say is hang in there buddy and hope for a thunderstorm.  


07/10/23 12:58 PM #6474    

 

Barbara Kahn (Tepper)

You have a pool Phil?!  I live a couple of blocks from the ocean but it's too hot to bother to walk there and then there's the problem of all that sand...

I have some air conditioning now - not central though because it's an old house. I remember when I was young the first window air conditioner my family bought was put in my parents' room. My sister and I would sometimes sleep on the floor in their room or make up a chaise lounge on the screened in porch for the 2 of us. These memories are all post-fourth grade which was when we moved.   Before that we were in an apartment building and I guess we just suffered. Our building backed up to a public park so maybe we spent time outside at the park? All I remember is having my birthday parties on picnic tables in that park.  

I've never been crazy about summer but I do love my flower gardens now. I also have raspberry bushes and a wifi bird feeder in my small yard. Land is expensive this close to the ocean. 

 

 

 

 


07/10/23 02:03 PM #6475    

 

Philip Spiess

Barbara, no, we do not have a pool.  I didn't mean to mislead you (or other readers); my wife and I have been taking a lot of short trips, and I was referring to pool-side at the various places we've stayed lately.  (We used to belong to the neighborhood swimming pool here, as my family did in Clifton, but I've "aged out" of wanting to do much swimming.)  Instead, we have a lovely backyard and patio; we bring in the landscape gardeners every spring to spiff up the yard and woods (I don't garden; I have a "black thumb") and then we have various plants flowering for most of the season.  I used to have cocktails and read on the patio before dinner, enjoying the flowers, but last summer and this have been too hot for the most part.

About the time I was entering Walnut Hills, my grandparents got a window air conditioner for their bedroom at their home in Finneytown.  We had Sunday dinner with them every week, and when it got too hot in the summer to eat comfortably in the dining room, we'd eat Sunday dinner at a card table in their bedroom.  My bedroom upstairs in Clifton [see photo from 1964 on my Profile on this site] got as hot as Dick Murdock describes his being (above), and so we mounted a double fan blowing outward in the back window in my room's alcove, and then cooler air would come rushing in at the side window by my bed.  On those nights I would often sleep with my head at the foot of the bed (by the window). 


07/11/23 01:16 PM #6476    

 

Barbara Kahn (Tepper)

Thanks for the clarification Phil but sorry you don't have a pool. We have a small backyard with no door to the outside from the second floor where we live. From the first floor is only a side door so there is no direct access to the back.  This house is designed so wrongly and makes no sense. The kitchen is in the front. 

I do have beautiful flowers and have done the planting for years. Now I am forced to improvise because I can't get down on my knees and get up again.I use a long handled pointed shovel and I have some pots on the porch. The only thing edible are my raspberries. 

You brought back memories because we only had one bedroom air conditioner in this house originally and we also set up a card table for all of us to eat in my bedroom.  It's not that long ago that we put in some more air conditioners. 


07/15/23 09:01 AM #6477    

 

Philip Spiess

I understand that word went around at our Reunion that I was absent because I was battling cancer.  This was quite true:  I had planned to be there, but, as I was in the middle of eight weeks of radiation treatments for prostate cancer, I could not be there.

However, I am glad to report that after that eight-week treatment, I "rang the bell" -- I am free of cancer (it has been "killed," which is to say it's in remission), although I remain on hormone therapy for two years to be on the safe side.  And no, I do not now glow in the dark after all that radiation.


07/15/23 04:15 PM #6478    

 

Jeff Daum

Philip, glad to read of your remission and that you don't glow in the dark.


07/16/23 07:31 AM #6479    

Jon Singer

Phil, sorry to hear of your recent health issue.  At age 60, my PSA took flight.  Before Michael Jackson got hooked on it, I experienced the blackness that came 11 seconds after the injection of Propofol.  The bi-lobe biopsy revealed unilateral cancerous lesions. Of the options of the time-radiation seeds (where you did glow and couldn't hav a grandkid on your lap), surgical excision (with immediate impotency), and 42 external beem radiation therapy. Sounds like you chose the daily zaps for close to two months as I had done. For those unaware of its generalized impact, radiation creates an abrupt onset of fatigue. As to local impact, for the last two weeks of treatment, radiation cystitis causes the recipient to pee every few hours AND you have to hold on to any solid structure, bracing against the pain of voiding. Once over this as you are Phil, you will remain asymptomatic and kick the cancer.  The long term impact of the radiation is George Castanza shrinkage. The whole package shrivels. However, your mind remains keen and history remains a boner. Jon


07/16/23 08:15 AM #6480    

 

Becky Payne (Shockley)

Phil: Thanks so much for the wonderful news! Congratulations! And keep up the good work!


07/16/23 12:59 PM #6481    

 

Barbara Kahn (Tepper)

Congratulations Phil! So happy to hear you are well now. As you probably know I also had a health problem. Maybe we'll make the next one?


07/16/23 03:15 PM #6482    

 

Jean Snapp (Miller)

Phil, I'm so glad to hear that you are in remission.  Good news.


07/16/23 05:11 PM #6483    

 

Sandy Steele (Bauman)

Phil, that's great news. We did indeed miss seeing you at the reunion. Glad you rang the bell to conclude your treatment. I did the same 20 years ago. 


07/16/23 05:32 PM #6484    

 

Nancy Messer

I wasn't going to mention this but after reading Phil and Jon's posts I decided I might as well.  I have breast cancer and have done much reading and have had many MD appointments and tests done.  What I have is treatable (cancer in the breast and lymph nodes and nowhere else in the body).  I have had 2 chemo sessions so far with 16 more to go.  After that is the surgery and then it will be determined if radiation is needed.  So the rest of my year will be much different from past years.  I hope I can deal with this as a reasonable person.


07/16/23 09:40 PM #6485    

 

Paul Simons

Good luck Nancy! Hang tough!


07/17/23 12:22 PM #6486    

 

Barbara Kahn (Tepper)

Good luck Nancy! Many of us have had serious health problems and are still here today. I had colon cancer in 2014. I had treatment following surgery and then another surgery a couple of years later. 

In May of this year I had my aortic valve replaced. I hope you will be encouraged by the many success stories.  heart


07/17/23 03:24 PM #6487    

 

Steven Levinson

All the best, Nancy.  It ain't fun, but you'll get through.  Love, Steve


07/17/23 03:43 PM #6488    

 

Ann Shepard (Rueve)

 

Phil, good to know you are in remission. 
Nancy, sending positive vibes for your continued progress through treatment. 
To all the survivors, I send much love and hugs and continued optimism even while cancer is "right in your face". 
One doesn't have to be working "The Twelve Steps" to appreciate the recital at the beginning of each AA meeting. Whether one believes in a supreme being or not, this is good advice, to appreciate each and every day that is given to us :

"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference..."

Getting older ain't for sissies!! Peace!!heart


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