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12/06/24 12:55 AM #6723    

 

Gail Weintraub (Stern)

Laura Reid Pease notified me that Gary Beck passed away last night at his home. He had been under Hospice Care. Gary was the husband of our classmate Mary Jo Smith.

I will post Gary's obituary once it is available.

Another classmate no longer with us. Such sadness. Carpe Diem.


12/06/24 12:29 PM #6724    

 

Bruce Bittmann

Just read about Gary Beck's passsing last night.  Very sad moment for me.  Gary was my best friend at WHHS.  I met Gary in 7th grade, and we became life long  friends.  Fortunately, Gary called me last week to update me on his health., which was not good.  We had a nice long chat - basically a 'good by' call.  A great friend, man, husband, father and grandfather.  I will miss beyond words.


12/06/24 05:05 PM #6725    

 

Sandy Steele (Bauman)

I was so sorry to hear about Gary Beck. My husband and I sometimes saw Gary and Mary Jo during holiday breaks from college. Mary Jo was in our wedding, and we saw her a few years ago while visiting Nantucket. Gary did not feel well that day, so did not come into town. He will be missed.

 


12/06/24 05:47 PM #6726    

 

Nelson Abanto

Gary was a superstar. He made us all proud to be associated with him. He will be sorely missed. 
 


12/07/24 03:41 PM #6727    

 

Charles Judd

Very sorry indeed to hear about Gary' Beck's death. We roomed together during the summer after our senior year, studying french in Swtizerland, on a trip organized by Walnut Hills french teacher Mme O'Neil. He will be missed.


12/08/24 11:49 AM #6728    

 

Dale Gieringer

    Sad to see yet another WHHS alum in today's NYT obituaries - Richard Hamilton, a mathematical genius who helped solve a fundamental problem in three-dimensional topology.  He was 81, three years ahead of us, but skipped his senior year.  Does anyone remember him?

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/12/04/science/richard-hamilton-dead.html


12/12/24 03:41 PM #6729    

 

Laura Reid (Pease)

Gary Walter Beck Obituary

Gary Walter Beck

 

 

Gary Walter Beck was born in Cincinnati, Ohio on November 27th, 1945, and died in Cincinnati, Ohio on December 5th, 2024. He is survived by his high school sweetheart and wife of 55 years, Mary Jo, his son Charles Beck (Stacey), and daughter Katherine Wojcik (James). Gary was preceded in death by his parents Walter Beck and Augusta Fischer Beck. He leaves behind four adored grandchildren (Owen, Will, Reese, and Mary Sloane).

 

Gary graduated from Walnut Hills High School in 1964 in Cincinnati, where he met his future wife in ninth grade French class and moonlit as a drummer in a rock n' roll band called "The Torquays." His summers in high school were spent as a trooper at Culver Military Academy, where he developed his love for horsemanship. He proudly returned to Culver in college as a riding instructor with the famed and historic Black Horse Troop. 

 

Graduating from Harvard University in 1968 and Harvard Business School in 1974, Gary also proudly served his country as an officer in the United States Air Force (1968-1972).

 

Gary began his professional career in 1974, when he joined global real estate investment company Gerald Hines Interests in Houston, Texas. There, he contributed his unique retail skills and ingenuity to the creation of major shopping centers and hotels in Texas and property management in Cincinnati for more than two decades. As Senior Vice President of Retail Development, Gary relished the opportunity to work with celebrated architects on projects like expanding the Houston Galleria and leading the creation of the Dallas Galleria. 

 

As a young professional, Gary enjoyed mentoring and leadership, supporting causes like Big Brother Big Sisters of America as a Big Brother. 

 

A vacation on Nantucket in 1975 would set off Gary's nearly 50-year love affair with the people and places of the island that became the family's annual summer home. He went on to purchase a small fishing cottage there in 1985 that he would eventually transform into a beautiful family retreat. Creating something that will continue to provide treasured memories and friendships for generations to come was his life's most prized project.

 

As humble as he was accomplished, Gary was a man of deep and diverse talents. His hobbies and interests ranged from sailing and skeet shooting to woodworking and coin collecting to train modeling and boating to pheasant hunting and home designing to landscaping and financial investing. He enjoyed time spent over the years at his much-loved Stump's Boat Club, the storied Nantucket Wharf Rat Club, the Nantucket Yacht Club, Sycamore Sportsmen's Club, and the Cincinnati Country Club. And as a nongolfer, he delighted in tending to the 9-hole golf course he built himself on his Indian Hill property, merely for the enjoyment of others.

 

Above all, he cherished his many friends and beloved family. They cherished his quick wit and practical style, his easy but endlessly interesting conversations and amusing storytelling, his always thoughtful and reliable counsel, his deep convictions and sharp intellect, his incomparable integrity and his unfailing loyalty.

 

A private burial will be held next summer on Nantucket. Memorial gifts may be made to: the Culver Educational Foundation/Colonel Whitney Fund, 1300 Academy Road, Culver, IN 46511 or online at www.culver.org/makeagift

 


12/12/24 03:51 PM #6730    

 

Laura Reid (Pease)

Here is the link to Gary's obit; it has a wonderful photo of Gary.  As you all know, Gary was married to Mary Jo Smith.  Mary Jo is my husband's first cousin; Chip's father and Mary Jo's mother were siblings.  Mary Jo said, "I was the luckiest Walnut Hills grad to marry Gary and be together for 55 years."  I will always remember Gary for that twinkle in his eye and his wicked sense of humor.

Happy holidays to all my wonderful classmates....

https://www.springgroveobituaries.org/obituaries/Gary-Walter-Beck?obId=34045218

 

 


12/13/24 07:53 AM #6731    

 

Philip Spiess

All of you above might want to put your very valuable sentiments and memories of Gary in the "In Memory" section of this site for posterity.


12/21/24 11:44 PM #6732    

 

Philip Spiess

Season's Greetings to all my Classmates!  Here is a seasonal present for all of you:

A TRADITIONAL WASSAIL BOWL:   [From a recipe of Cedric Dickens, Charles Dickens' great-grandson]

Ingredients:          3 pints Ale     1/2 oz. ground Ginger     1/2 oz. ground Nutmeg     8 oz. dark Brown Sugar

1/2 bottle of Sherry or Madeira Wine     2 Lemons     3 lumps of Sugar     12 Crab Apples or 6 small Red Apples

Directions:          First, roast the apples:  slit the skin for easier cooking, and bake the apples in a moderate oven [350 degrees F.] until their texture looks soft and mashable.  (During the cooking, baste with a little ale if the apples appear to be becoming too dry.) Second, place 2 1/2 cups of the ale in a saucepan; add the ginger, nutmeg, and brown sugar, and bring to a boil.  Rub the lumps of sugar on the outside of one of the lemons, removing all the zest; thinly slice the other lemon.  Add the sugar lumps, the sherry or Madeira [I recommend the Madeira], and the rest of the ale, to the saucepan, and make it very hot, but do not boil.  Place the lemon slices in a large punchbowl, and pour the hot liquid over them.  Add the sizzling roasted apples [this is the origin of Halloween's "bobbing for apples"], and enjoy! 

And here is the present I got:  a genuine 1950s Lionel Train Set!  (It is shown as set up in my backyard.)

And may 2025 turn out to be good to and for all of us!


12/22/24 08:05 AM #6733    

 

Paul Simons

Thanks Phil, your post brings back memories from years ago of both that type of drink and that type of railroad yard. One summer a job that I had was as a brakeman about when the Pennsylvania Railroad split into Amtrak the passenger service and Conrail for freight which is where I worked, out of the Sharonville yard. Similar layout to yours - the main tracks and off to the side a number of classification tracks. One aspect - they'd slowly push a train of maybe 100 cars along past the buildings on the right in your image and I'd use the uncoupling handle to cut loose a car or two or three as required which would roll down the slight incline and be switched to whichever classification track they had to go to. The air hoses uncoupled automatically but the air valves had to closed to maintain air pressure which kept the brakes off. Major safety feature - any accidental loss of air pressure stops the train. This might have been George Westinghouse's extremely important innovation. Thanks for the holiday wishes, let me echo that to all. 


12/22/24 11:37 AM #6734    

 

Becky Payne (Shockley)

Thanks,  Phil. My brother Karl loved his Lionel trains - he had them set up on a large table my father had built for him in what I think was originally a billiard room in our attic. In order for Dad to work on it and help setting up the trains, Karl had to attend Mme Fedorova's ballroom dance classes every Fridat night at the Alms hotel. Remember those? (Karl hated them!)


12/22/24 11:40 AM #6735    

 

Becky Payne (Shockley)

PS: Karl's train table occupied just half of the old billiard room. The other half was my personal space, and I named it "Miss Lane's Club" (after my 2nd grade teacher, who I thought at the time was just wonderful!) 


12/22/24 12:38 PM #6736    

 

Ann Shepard (Rueve)

Thanks Phil!
With the beginning of Hanukkah and Christmas falling on December 25 this year, I extend greetings for a joyous holiday season.

 

 

 


12/22/24 12:39 PM #6737    

 

Margery Erhardt (Schrader)

Becky and Phil...what fond memories with the trains and then Mme. Fefe's! That was a riot every Friday evening. Girls trying to climb out the window in the "powder room" though if they could where would they go? Dallas had a similar institution and both my sons attended wondering my reasoning. Anyway, I talk weekly with a friend from CPS (Miss Doherty's) (sp) and as we attended together we recall really funny episodes.


12/22/24 04:23 PM #6738    

 

Jeff Daum

Phil, nice pic of train yard.  However, my Lionel trains (and most that any of us would have known) ran on a three track system.  Those in your image are two track systems and look suspicously real, like the South Station Approaches classic picture.  My set up had grown to half of our basement in Bond Hill.  It started on a 6 by 10 foot platform that included the transformer and controls.  That part had two levels of tracks and a switching yard.  It then continued along the wall behind our furnace (initially coal then gas) along a suspended track that ran into my work area before looping back to the main table.  Fun times indeed.


12/22/24 06:19 PM #6739    

 

Philip Spiess

Okay, Jeff, you've "outed" me:  the train setup I posted is not a Lionel set, but the yard of Boston's South Station in the 1940s (station headhouse in the far background).  I did indeed have a Lionel train setup in my basement, too, but the best I ever saw (aside from the Cincinnati Gas & Electric Co.'s lobby train show at Christmas) was our classmate Jim Stillwell's; it was in his basement, too (it even had running streetcars).

Becky!  I hope and trust you're back to being able to play the piano again.  Speaking of your old house in Clifton, in October Kathy and I visited Cincinnati for the first time in twenty years; we stayed for the week in "The Clifton House," the house on the corner of Terrace Avenue, across Whitfield from your house.  It is now a very nice bed & breakfast (we stayed in the 2-story carriage house on the alley across from your driveway).  We also had a great 2-hour tour of Walnut Hills High School, and the joint strings classes played two pieces for us. As to Miss Lane and 2nd Grade, there we were for the year out in the "bungalow"; I remember you playing the piano for us (it stood across a corner of the room).  I had Miss Lane for 3rd Grade as well (on Clifton School's 3rd floor); did you?

Ann:  a sad note:  we had to put down our dog Haligan in September; what we thought was a back problem turned out to be a tumor and leukemia.  He was my "nap buddy"; now all I have to share my nap with me is an old woolen blanket (not so warm and cuddly).

Margery:  I never learned dancing at Madame Fedorova's; I was part of the dancing group with Mr. Gallus.  However, we all must have done well (despite escaping out windows):  years ago I was at a wedding reception in White Plains, New York.  After observing me for awhile on the dance floor, an elderly lady on the sidelines (whom I did not know) remarked, "You must be from Cincinnati."  "I am," I said, "but how did you know?"  "All the young men that I've seen who are good ballroom dancers seem to come from Cincinnati," she responded.  Years later, my son was in Cotillion here in Virginia; he must have been good, too, for they asked him to help teach the following year.

And Paul:  tell us more of your railroad adventures.


12/22/24 07:55 PM #6740    

 

Ann Shepard (Rueve)

Phil. Sorry to learn about your buddy Haligan. Wool blankets certainly not the same. As one who has experience such loss over my lifetime, it doesn't get any easier.  Even though I retired from facilitating pet loss groups on a regular basis three years ago, I still fill in from time to time. I filled in Tuesday night and it reminded me that our animals lives are so much shorter than our own, but those who love having them around make the choice in spite of it.  Hugs.


12/23/24 09:57 AM #6741    

 

Philip Spiess

HALIGAN a year ago  (you can see him as a puppy in 2014 on my Profile, 15th picture in).

 


12/23/24 04:28 PM #6742    

 

Ann Shepard (Rueve)

And what a fine dog!! 


12/23/24 10:11 PM #6743    

 

Becky Payne (Shockley)

Margery: Thanks for your memories of Madame Fifi - I never knew about girls trying to jump out the windows! (My brother referred tro he as Madame "Forty-or-over"  back then we thought age 40 was realy ancient!)

Jeff: Your model train empire sounds amazing! Very impressive! 

Phil: Thanks for your good wishes. Yes, I still play - not too frequently but at least once a month for my little (mainly retired) piano teacher group ithat meets in people's homes. Glad you re-visited Clifton. We know the Clifton House - stayed there once while visiting Karl and Susan in their house on Howell Ave. And when I was growing up it was thte Marjorie P. Lees Home (for Seniors) - now located in Hyde Park. I even played the piano for them once - as a Red Cross service project (wearing my official Red Cross uniform!) Also, about 15 years ago, I saw someone working outside 394 Terrace, so Karl and I introduced ourselves as former residents and asked if we could go through thte house. The nice man showed us around, and they had done a lot of nice updates to it, and restored parts that had suffered abuse while it was used as student rental housing at one time. Lots of memories there! Re Clifton School - I had Mrs. Phelps for 3rd grade. I don't remember playing for Miss Lane's class, but I did once bring some puppets and performed a play I had written for them. However, my script was censored: When i had one character say "Shut up!" to another one, she made me change it to "Hush up." So I learned to watch my language!

 

 


12/24/24 01:15 PM #6744    

 

Margery Erhardt (Schrader)

Becky, I also have fond memories of getting together in your living room for junior guild (?) events. Such fun and memorable times with your dear mother!!! And I have and love your book about her!!!!!


12/24/24 03:48 PM #6745    

 

Jeff Daum

Thanks Becky.  It was a fun set up, though as I got older my focus was to see how fast I could run the engines (without hauling cars) around the tracks before they flew off. laugh I only did this with engines already in need of repair while keeping the rest of the Lionel engines and cars in good condition.

Unfortunately when I left for Miami U (Oxford), my parents moved back to New York and gave my trains to my sister (WHHS class of 1960) who then gave them away without telling me.

Our sons were only breifly interested in trains and then it was "Z" and "N" gauge rather than Lionel.


12/25/24 10:18 AM #6746    

 

Ann Shepard (Rueve)

Season's greetings everyone!


12/25/24 01:56 PM #6747    

 

Becky Payne (Shockley)

Margery: Thanks for remembering those Junior Keyboard Club meetings (where they also served supper before the performance - I'm sure that was a bg attraction for many of us!) And I'm so glad you've enjoyed my mom's memoirs!She was pretty amazing!

Jeff: Thanks for the update on your model trains. (I remember that Karl also had some HO guage trains, which I think ran on smaller tracks, but I don't remember the details. But if you're ever in the Twin Cities, you can visit this place: Twin City Model Railroad Museum

https://www.google.com/search?q=model+train+museum+st+paul&oq=model+train+museum&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqDQgCEAAYkgMYgAQYigUyCggAEAAY4wIYgAQyEAgBEC4YrwEYxwEYgAQYjgUyDQgCEAAYkgMYgAQYigUyBwgDEAAYgAQyCggEEAAYyQMYgAQyDQgFEC4YrwEYxwEYgAQyBwgGEAAYgAQyBwgHEAAYgAQyBwgIEAAYgAQyBwgJEAAYgATSAQg2Mjg1ajBqN6gCALACAA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

You can even hop on an old train  enegine and take a slow 5-minute ride along a short stretch of the old railroad. That's fun!

 

 


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